Perhaps it is the
absence of limitations that causes us the most grief. Some people recoil at the
sound of the word discipline. Yet, it is discipline that allows us greater
freedom. It is said in the Tao Te Ching that we should dwell within our
borders. Of course it must be said that it is important that we find out what
our borders are. However, this has no bearing however on how happy and
peaceful you can be. Learn to be content and at peace.