It is the good
soldier that is not violent, not the one with the most ribbons and medals or
rank. The greatest victor is not vengeful; the most skillful fighter is the one
who is not angry, but competes with a docile heart and mind. By maintaining
reserve, there is more to give. By not showing your cards, it is you that can
pull the surprise rather than be the unfortunate one who has the surprise
launched upon them.