We may be tempted to think of our course in life and our destiny and wonder what if we had made different decisions. Would we be on another path now with a different destiny? The truth is we have made our choices and now live with our destiny. No one can say where we would be now if things had happened differently. We could go mad thinking about it. What about the others in our lives? Where are they now, or where would they be? Again, it is impossible to say. We cannot know such things nor should we spend time pondering the unknowable.