Embrace All
In order to be one with Tao, you must embrace all. The bad with the good. The darkness with the light. The sorrow with the happiness. Not every painting can be a masterpiece. You cannot only accept things you find desirable or pleasing. The Tao encompasses all within the universe. It is only when one can accept all facets of things, all cycles, all outcomes, that one can truly be in step with Tao.