Speaking Truth
Man who tell truth does not need to remember lies. Tao never deceives or lies. Be honest with others and especially yourself. Very easy to deceive self into thoughts of delusion. When speaking truth, do so with velvet words. Ancients say, it is not what you say, but how say what you say. Always aim for honesty, but not to point of foolishness or harshness. Honesty must often be spoken with coating of sugar to avoid sour feelings.